So after trying out two other well known sites; one being a big sleaze fest for mostly looking for sex, and curious married men it seemed, I´ve been steered towards the Date in asia, in an attempt to meet some normal, decent, fun men and band together a gang, gaggle, If you are bigoted in any way--if you feel superior because of race or gender; if you have a problem with people of any given religion; if you have a problem with LGBT/Q people: Just. Go. Away. This is an absolute deal-breaker. I am myself, Lesbian, a decent, and fun person looking for some new decent people. Despite being in my mid 30´s, I am a big adventurist at my core and generally I´m strong and independent, but a big softie too. Please remember, I am not looking for tons of people that contact me professing their love and loyalty.... like most do. I just want an intelligent conversation that leads me to a solution. The problem I am having is this.... how do I find a good people without the fear of being scammed myself. I can’t speak Japanese either Korean. Haha! But I want to learn. I am looking for a Japanese, Korean or Someone from Southeast Asia, friends in hopes of finding a someone that is everything I hope for. Someone that is honest, loyal, loving, kind, funny, outgoing and the perfect best friend. But if I simply post an add like most people here do. What protects me from being another prisoner to these scams?